Four years ago we have lost our only daughter, named Elena, on an age of 23. It was dreadful and devastating time and place to live for us. But we’ve managed to go through it somehow. The only purpose of our life during the last few years was to find out why all this happened, where we have made mistakes, what we have overlooked or failed to see or understand as a family, as parents, as human beings?
We believe we’ve found many answers to those difficult questions. We believe that our eyes got opened for many invisible and unrealized, but very important principles - a foundation of each healthy communication and relationship. And today we both, Lilly and Nikolay Kalitzin, as a family and working partners, would like to help anyone who needs an emotional or spiritual support.
In my work as a life coach and psychotherapist I discovered that the best way to achieve quick and stable results in the emotional and psychological health of the people is to get them away from the current environment and spend some time within calm, understanding and accepting ambience.
We are ready and would love to create such a place, where we could welcome anyone, who, for some reason have lost himself or suffer to get his life back.
In our dreams this place would be able to accommodate between 10 to 15 people. It should be somewhere outside the city, back in the mountain, close to the nature.
We all together will grow in a farm and prepare our food, will take care of the place and each other, will work with hands in different workshops (pottery, drawing, embroidering, carpentry, photo-transfer, calligraphy…). Meanwhile we will learn to communicate openly for everything you can imagine, will learn to trust each other, to accept everyone the way he is. Will have group and individual discussions, art therapy sessions, hikes in the nature, herbs gathering, night talks around the fire and a lot of quality time together.
In order to create such a place we need funds to buy a land and build premises, workshop places and all other needed facilities. We have found a proper land with an old and destroyed house, which we will restore by ourselves with your kind finance help to buy it.
We love to create a space for feelings, thoughts, reflections and shared creativity, a context that influences and touches all of us.
Thanks to all of you, who decide to support our idea of building a healing home for people in need.