My Fiancé is in school and I'm an in home care giver. We don't want a huge extravagant wedding. Just enough to have the important things we want. The most expensive items in a normal wedding are already are being provided by family like the venue, photographer, and the cake. I know it's pretty typical for one side of the family to plan and pay for everything. But honestly, it's not all that realistic anymore. We didn't really plan on a honeymoon either. We just need help with paying for the dress, the catering, flowers and the little things. Anything that is donated will be a great help. And if we surpass our goal, what is left will go toward the honeymoon.