I'm 23 , a young Singaporean male. As embarrassing as it is to admit or even say , I suffer from gynocomestia. In Basic terms , gynocomestia is the enlargement of the nipple due to estrogen. For a male , living in today's context and society , Ive not been sparred the shame and bullying that comes with this ailment. In secondary school is when I torment started . I always wore two inner shirts as my gyno made my chest and nipples noticably bigger then usual . I even went to the extent of using bandaids in an attempt to try and stop my gyno from poking out . Everyday without fail I wouldn't be teased on having nipples the size of a 50 cent coin( the old big I one) eventually i steered away from the crowd and always wore a bag that had straps big enough so that I can pull I think to the center of my chest to help cover my embarrassing chest . Needless to say this followed me all the way to my higher education where I always always wore thick clothing To mask away my chest . But even doing so , i was still Made fun of , you could say indirectly . Ever so often my peers would come by flicking my nipple or even jester about it . Being the 18 year old me , laughing along with them was the only thing I did but in reality I just felt disheartened . Ever so often as a guy you'd get lucky enough to get yourself a girl who'd be your first ever in bed . We dated for awhile and even got closer as she started coming over to do school work and such . Of course soon enough things got heated and as any guy would feel , I felt . I truly liked this girl and well as the moment got intense , she took my shirt off and immediately just stared at my chest . The first thing she asked was ,'why do you have boobs '. As if making out with the hottest girl that I never thought I'd be with wasn't amazing the entire thing was completely destroyed by this very moment . You can only imagine how awkward to got further on . As time went by , upon getting my diploma it was time for me to enlist for national service . I was stoked for this , I thought perhaps in here , losing weight and being around guys would allow me to be the best possible version I could be . I was very very wrong . Within days of enlistment , it was only ONCE that I ever took my shirt off , and that was enough to get my entire bunk laughing st me . Bunkmates labeled me as a cow because I had nipples as big as a cow . Of course not everyone followed along with this and I made true friends disputed this road bump. Ever since this mistake I've always changed at night or the wee hours in the morning . Following through my entire national service I've never , I repeat never ever took off my shirt infront of anyone. During my national service I strived for fitness working really hard to bring slim and managed to get to 65 kg and I was really fit but even then my gyno was even more prominent . With this in mind despite my fitness I couldn't get rid of this haunting condition . No matter where I go or what I do il never be able to escape this. So I was back to hiding myself. I always wore the same thick clothing over and over again just to mask my gyno in public and with my friends . I never ever went swimming or even had the courage to wear nice fitting clothes . As a male , in Singapore especially , there aren't many people who even know about this condition . I don't even dare to tell my parents about this . I truly yearn to feel the confidence , to be able to swim and even wear clothes that I really like and don't even dare to wear with this condition . Finally after surfing the internet , I've discovered a really promising option to get rid of this . Surgery has shown to be the best and apparently only option in getting rid of this condition . One of the top clinics that specializes in this is Amaris b and the range for surgery is 7k . Finally , a solution to his life long torment . Finally , I have the chance to be 'normal ' , to have dignity as a man , to feel like confident .To all that have read up to this point , thank you for reading my story .