What would you do? Being told you was a bad parent, knowing you raised your 2 boys by yourself for 7 years with no help from other parent, saving 3 children out of a building engulfed in fire, Reviving a 4 year old girl from death with CPR, pulling a man jumping from a railing back onto the bridge? I worked my but off to take care of my family & provide for them. In one moment our whole life has been totally turned upside down. It's hard watching my whole family cry, cry & cry some more. I have never asked for help like this EVER.
My wife's brother came to our house last year. We felt bad & told him to come up to NH and get some fresh air and a change of scenery. During his 6 week stay with us, He started growing marijuana underneath our house with our son. He also had our son selling marijuana to his teen friends. Which lead to police coming to our home. We had already removed her brother from our home because of the profanity, manners & lack of respect he had while here.
Her brother was only at our home for 6 weeks. My wifes brother had already went back to Masachusetts, leaving this on our doorstep. Our family is being torn apart. My wife & I have been charged with "Aiding the manufacture of marijuana by providing shelter & electricity to our son." We tried to explain this to the police officer. I was told because i am a parent, I am resposible for the constant supervision of my children!? My have 3 teens & 1 11yr old. I cannot believe this is happening to us. We are a loving & caring family. We give our children Love & Respect. We are a religous family.
I do not know what to do. All of our savings account has been depleated on legal costs. I was told we both could be looking at serious fines & jail time. I will do anything however to keep my family as stable as I can. We have been trying to sell our belongs to cover Rent, Electricity, food & the rest of our legal fees. It is not yeilding anything & i'm trying here as a last ditch effort to secure our home for our children. I was always taught to work hard & provide for my family. When work found out what was going on, they let me go without reason. They only told me I just was not needed anymore. I lost a 1300 a week pay check & all our health benefits. They made me feel as though we should have not been working. I worked 70 hours a week & my wife worked 7 days a week. How am I suppose to keep total eyes on a16 year old & work crazy hours?
I lost the health care from work & now my wife, whom had a Heart attack a few years back, has not been taking her medications. She had a stent put in an artery and needs a lot of mediaction. I myself, have been dealing with blood clots & ocular migraines. At the least, I am trying to pay the rent up some so they can at least have a roof over their head. Seeing my family going in & out of fits of crying is tearing me apart. If this does not work, my family will be completely Displaced! Look around at your children, imagine it happening to you. PLEASE HELP US!
Please Won't Someone Help? No one??