Hello there welcome to my fundraising page sometimes giving can also mean receiving which I intend to do for as many of you good people willing to put your money to help my Business and family and a reward for your dedication to reading and donating will be offered my very long story.
What is this fundraiser about really?
Ok they say honesty is the best policy, well I do agree. In life they also say if you don't get what you want dust yourself off and try again? What about the something that means more to you than anything? Mine, is family. Well it may not apply to everyone and we all have our own reasons and battles to face with this subject not everyone has the minerals needed to love and have compassion do the right thing by friends or family as I experiance regularly with my own close friends & family members.
One member of my small family who I love with all my heart is my dear mumsy, Muma as I like to call her by has worked so hard now in her 60th year has raised four children from the age of 17 and the youngest still at home now at 28. Bringing up a family being married all those years to my dad a working class man worked all his life and now at the age of 64 should be retiring in 6 months but that is not the option he is ready to use yet a choice as well as money 12 hour night shifts, 4 a week ontop of for this last year 1 year exactly in May has kept going all my mums cleaning jobs a few in the day and early evening 5 days a week helped by my brother as much as possible but he also works 12 hour nights.
My dad never laying around doing nothing in his spare time always keeping busy but now I feel to much and for how much longer, he never moans about doing all the work to support the family just gets on with it and all so that my Muma doesn't have to work while having her treatmeant for breast cancer.
My parents are honest working class people they have never had a lot of help in life financially as with lots of us we work we get, that is the only mentality we know.
They have been lucky to be in the position of living in a lovely council house which they have looked after as there own.
Now with little savings, muma can't get her pension till 64 it changed a few years ago so instead of the expected age for her retirement 60 it now feels a long way off. Returning to work will not be going back to cleaning work ever again treatment will not finish till October and then still tablets for years.
when it comes to family my oldest sisters is not interested and struggles to be nice to anyone just round the corner but has no concern. My other sibling lives around 40 miles away from Muma has has a steady run in life 2 kids nice home it has been tough at times but we are really proud and happy for my sister.
My muma a busy working woman 40 miles away never around to have tea or sit kids has always been a unhappy part of life with no one family just there but everyone has there own personal struggles in that way. A change with the most happiest day yet to bring news, a call to Muma, anyone who has no money tree could only dream of recdiving a call with a potential of financial security being waved on a close family member my sister and hubby together for 20 year a call of a lifetime to inform us that hubby's single old father with 1 son, (hubby) had won millionsSSS on the lotto! Can you believe it?
Well hand on heart I am well happy for him we don't all meet up ever but he is an extended member of my tiny family but with this my sister now being gifted with a lovely sum of lottery stake a multimillionaire family!
keep it cool this is a joyous moment surely my Muma and dad will be sorted now for a happy retirement financially as you can buy into that lifestyle show me the money but health is not ruled by wealth.
worry I have had I thought now by a miracle be gone oh my this is fantastic this will change the future, if only a little bit for immediate close members? But for Mum and dad would be peace of mind? Now months later and not a mention truly no conversation about anthing a gesture out of the ordinary, little gift, family break, present? a help in hand for your old mum & dad now or in near future? Nothing! Party on! we as a family would never ask my sister and she is taking the approach of visiting us as normal and not saying either way, I'm going to help you with some of the stuff that makes the world go round!
Really in my heart I know this has hurt my Muma much deeper than a handout. please don't tell me that I am wrong it is money given to them we have no right to expect a penny. A lady gaga special I have the full visual in my mind I'm on the edge of glory! Dream on! who said anything about giving any to you lot!
Not that anything like this has been said by my sis but they do say silence speaks volumes no one could or would believe the greed, power trip, selfishness, a win wouuld create turn a persons head that much to believe that saying nothing and giving nothing would be ok.
We are all only human and when you are so lucky as they have been you would want to give to make others realise how lucky, just for being related to them or if not so you could always remind them when suited that they was the person who made it all possible.
No arguments, not a crossed word later from all of us stupid or proud or maybe feeling a bit money grabbing if we was to mention the words of gift. I have to speak for myself with this as no other parties are privey in this write up but a chance of money grabbing would be a fine thing. For me it has been a passing moment in time which will have a long lasting drive on my future starting with unfinished business that will change the circumstances for my 2 special parents but for me to put a small business in place to allow my dad to just go to his own job without my mums work on top and help my mum with an income a small online business to work from home with not to much stress.
The world don't stop just be course your ill and the bills still got to be payed We all know that reality is and will be for so many in this world the single most hardest thing to overcome on a regular basis and I wish you all well with it.
Well that was a long story but you need to know where things stand to judge and jury my story. For me 30 years old, no children, renting, business success, achievement and the dreaded didnt we do Well? No! not so well. striving to make my dreams come a reality but it won't be with this business I'm writing to you all about now this will be to supply a steady income for my Muma.
For me I will be stoping at nothing less than financial security, business reknonition and a career that comes very natural to me the idea has been born and played with just not on paper in full view as yet, there is a big investment needed but will be secured investment for any backers. Don't mind me for voicing 1 idea before the business I have told you about that I need your help with right now. One step at a time!
ok the end of 2012 till middle of 2013 first of all in a shop then online I had a clothing business after a lot of stressfull events my shop was just purfect but without the thing most needed for success not enough footfall after so much effort and time put in, moving home 2 times, Muma being told of the dreaded C and for the first time feeling presure like never beforI'm back and with a drive to get what I want the shop was a tough learning kerb but till just lately I'm asked why don't you sell items of stock, I have safe guarded and thought about lots, sell them off cheap! some money is better than none, do a market? Bids on ebay joblot! I say get back, I'm thinking!It was just as well I did othetwise I would have nothing to work with.
Gogetfunding is amazing I found it hard to believe how there is so many people with the ability to give and not receive and that is a super quality to have as a person And one I hold dear to me. I let the business do nothing and didn't continue with the efforts I had put into my online shop website that I built myself that was through a great ecommerce provider and has everything needed for success a twitter following growing and steady growing hits I was just on the edge of moving it forward with using all avaliable avenues to list my site to drive traffic to create sales then I stopped Just like that.
So you know my story and now i shall tell you the story that I would like to be written and maybe with help from you good people this start to end story won't take long and be very similar to this...
I am very fortunate to have made some top connections in the wholesale apprael world and items I still have in my possesion to offer as a way of saying thankyou for your financial help given kindly to enable a otherwise brick wall situation. I want to structure donations of certain amount certain clothing as a gift. lower donations gifts will not go empty handed you will be entitled to free delivery from my website when its live again so no one goes empty handed a small thankyou for getting this business back on its feet and again and ready for action.
I'm able to give some choice for donations and Ralph Lauren, Karen Millen items for higher gift structure. Cash needed will be for the latest fashion items from my wholesalers this will be dresses tops skirts that are height of fashion this season that are proven selling items here and now.
To trade as a gift to you my older stock for your donations. fresh image for new season also I can't go live with same items I had before. Designer clothing Ralph Lauren, timberland, firetrap, ax paris. I have full access to these brands at wholesale prices not the full range but standard repeat selling lines 100% genuine that do sell on a professional platform for a strong profit. Online website a must have laptop which will cost £400 for a good enough model. New business branding pro logo design which I never got first time round, business cards, leaflets, pay website provider to get back on line. Ready for lift off build links for maximum hits and guide Muma through the whole process as I steadily offer guidance till Muma has the raines which won't take long with years of computer knowledge under her wings.
I'm set free in my mind and my cherished business that meant so much to me when I started it in 2012 is now in safe hands and for the right reasons. Leaving me to pursue my next enterprise the biggest logicial great idea good timing, very common business in a growing industry. I have a added edge on a part of this business local ties as well as being based on a company I have been lucky to have involvement with this company before. Another days reading!
Thanks for reading my whole hearted story this is all a very hard decision to write my thoughts in this much depth as we are such a private family and my Muma and dad would not agree to this disclosure of this sore subject for the world to read so I'm trying to remain forthcoming with information but not to the point of names. Any questions I have no problem answering privately and proof of all things mentioned and gave lots of photos of my shop from blank and empty unit to full up shop. This is 100% genuine family story, My family story.
Donate anything a voucher for free delivery
Donate £50 and send me prefrence i have a stock of Ralph Lauren polo shirts s-xl white black navy red all 100% genuine great for Summer these are men's but still look great on ladies for casual look.
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