Brown Family Debt

Hello,Our names are Allan and Heidi.  We have been married for over 4 years andi am a recently seperated veteran.  Since being in the military and getting out my wife and i have gathered a large abount of debt and borrowed money from just about everyone we have known.  We would like to get out of this debt and enjoy our lives together.  It has been extreamly hard to get a job after seperating from the Air Force.  I have a bad back so i cannot get a job that pays well.  I really would love to help put my wife into school and provide for her.  I love her and want to give her the world.  She is my rock. I would also love to actually have a wedding ceremony, but could not afford one so we had to just sign papers at court house.  We have cut back on almost everything and sold most of our things to get by.  We also love to donate plasma because we are helping people and get a little cash at the same time...  Please any help would be greatly appreciated.  Thank you.