bride token (mahr) vs. love

my name is abed, i live in Jordan, im 32 years old, i work at a small nonprofit organization in a small city called al salt, i`v been in love with a girl i work with for over a year now, i want to marry her, the problem is the bride token (mahr), its money the groom has to pay the brides family in order to be excepted, her father is asking for about 21000$ (15000 jod), i was able to collect nearly half of it, but i exhausted all my resource, and i dont know what else to do, the economy in Jordan is in bad shape, with the influx of refugees, money is hard to come by, the reason why im in a hurry, is because she keeps getting marriage proposals (arranged marriage), and she keeps saying no, and thats not gonna work any more, her father is starting to suspect she`s in a relationship and he`s forcing her to marry the last guy that proposed, i have until july 6th to come up with rest of the money and ask for her hand,

this is my last resort, and i would like to appeal for your kindness and generosity to help me achieve what seems to be at this moment an unattainable goal.