Really, honestly, I hate grifitng. I hate asking for help, never been a fan. This means so much to me that you guys have helped this much, it's tremendous.
As for a little update: An attorney from a couple states away has offered to help the attorney I've hired for free, I think the latin term is pro bono but I don't speak latin, that's the devil's language. One thing I'm struggling to figure out is if my charges are misdemeanors or felonies. Ill update with that whenever I can.

Again, thank you all