Jul 06, 2019 at 04:03 pm

CPS Wants Me To Take Child To Father But Police Say This Is Facilitating a Suicide. We Are Scared.

Update posted by Domestic Violence Victim Identity Protected

The CPS worker told me I have to bring the child to his father, even though the child has been hospitalized 5 times for cutting and suicide issues as I have explained in earlier updates.

When I was trying to convince my child to get ready to be taken to see his father, I didn't know at the time but he sent a goodbye message to his friends, telling them all that he was being forced to go with his father, so this was the last his friends were going to hear of him because he was going to kill himself this summer.

As I was packing the car for the trip, the police came to my house looking for my son. Apparently his friends had called police for help.

When the police first showed up, I thought they had been sent by the father, since he and his lawyer had been threatening me for not bringing the child to the visit - Even though they knew he was in the hospital, they still threatened me with "custodial interference" and accused me of "violating the father's rights" by not sending the child et. This is what I have been dealing with. They have ZERO concern for the child, and 100% percent focus on having me sanctioned for something.

When the police talked to my child alone for a while, they came to me and told me that this child is NOT going to his father. They were very supportive and sympathetic to the situation.

I told them I was scared of the threats from the father and his lawyer, and scared that the Child Worker is forcing me to follow the family court orders for visitation and bring the child to his father for the summer, but the police told me that if I did that, I would be in trouble - They said it would be "facilitating a suicide".

That is exactly what I was told by the original Child Worker when the oldest child was in the same situation a few years ago, and that child was protected by the Child Worker.

But this time, as I have mentioned before in earlier updates, there is something going on with this Child Worker and the father - I received an email thread of secrecy behind my back for example...

Even though I told the Child Worker that the police warned me if I sent the child then I would be in trouble for putting the child at risk and possibly facilitating a suicide, the Child Worker is still wanting me to bring the child to his father. She continues to insist that there is no proof of harm to the children.

This does not make any sense and my whole family is scared of what power she might have.

How can a Child Worker try to force a suicidal child to go with the person who is making him suicidal and how can she send me her passive threats that I must bring the child so that I am not in contempt of the family court orders for visitation? Is she trying to get me in trouble with police as they have warned me against bringing the child to his father?????

All of these things happen when you have children with a dangerous abuser and it is truly scary and I cannot navigate a dangerous legal system that never sanctions the abuser which results in harm for the victim and the children...

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