It was two years ago today that Emma had her leg amputated. A decision that most of us could never imagine making, and an incredibly difficult one for her. However, following the operation, the majority of tremendous pain she was experiencing was alleviated and the change to her mental wellbeing was practically instantaneous. It was obvious in her voice (and giggles) in the telephone calls from her hospital bed and Mark’s simple aside that he ‘had his Em back’.

The support Emma has received to help get her independence back and adapt to her new life has been tremendous. A big THANK YOU goes out to the NHS staff, including district and hospital nurses, prosthetists, medics, physios, occupational therapists and psychologists. To her family for supporting the Hartwoods to make their house accessible – there is something quite Star Trek about Emma appearing through the floor of her bedroom in the lift. And definitely not forgetting the good wishes and practical support from all you family and friends!

Em’s courage, bravery and strength are beyond admirable. In the last two years she has learnt to use a wheelchair and the funky scooter to get round her house and neighbourhood, so that she can have some independence and care for her family and friends. She learnt to walk again! She can now drive and swim again, and manoeuvre herself out of a hot tub with more grace than we ever remember her having with two legs. She has begun the process of grieving for the life she imagined having. And this is all in the context of managing a long-term physical health condition and working to become physically healthier. She is a true superwoman!

On a more positive note, and Emma is very good at looking for these, over the last two years parking has become easier, she has saved a fair amount of time not having to pair her socks, and has amassed an impressive number of leg jokes (we challenge anyone to out pun her!).

Over the last month your generosity with words and actions, as well as funds has been jaw dropping. Thank you all for your donations, fundraising efforts and kind messages. We reached £10k in under a month. We are so looking forward to seeing how the new leg improves Emma’s life over the next two years and beyond. Being able to get out and about with more ease, maybe take a stroll on some rough terrains, throw some shapes on the dance floor, travel easier, and most importantly gain confidence in her ability to walk again.

Please continue to spread the word and share details of our crowding funding, Facebook and Twitter pages. We will continue to update you of our progress and any events.

Lots of love & happy holidays, Legless@40 x