Thank you all for the continued support and prayers. As some of you know Johns father passed away last week from terminal cancer. As we were finishing up with his funeral I received a call from the hospital asking me to return as soon as I can because of a change in Johns status. After returning to the hospital I learned that Johns condition had deteriated and the test ran showed very little brain activity. The doctor advised me that if I had any family that would like to visit now may be the time. After a long drawn out process and the help from Jake and his close friends in law enforcement we located Johns brother in Texas on the military base and notified him and he is flying in tonight 4/2/2013. They are in the process of getting organ donation set up and ready for after Josh (Johns Brother) arrives and we take John off life support. After numerous test the last 48 hours john is clinically brain dead. I know John has said in the past that he never would want to be kept alive by machines and I know he would be upset if we continued to keep him on life support. Its still very hard knowing that im going to make the decision to take him off of it but it would be his wish and choice. I know John will be in heaven with God smiling down on us and watching over the kids and I. I wanted to thank everyone who has helped in prayers, support, finances and even for the thoughts. We really have appreciated it all. Please continue to keep the family in your thoughts and prayers and pray that we all get through this and help the kids understand. We love you all

God Bless

   Melissa