I feel that anyone compelled to read this must understand, this fundraiser is of no light and trifling importance, but is rooted in a genuine need.  For years Patrick had been fighting for custody of his girls. As many such disputes do, this took a turn for the worse and tactics followed suit.  Court battles were drawn out in an attempt to drain his financial ability to fight back for a number of years.  This has left the Patrick with an empty heart and a heavy financial burden he can ill afford.   

We are making unbelievable strides towards our goal thanks to all of the generous contributions we have received, but this cannot stop until we hit the $14,600 mark has been met. 

The goal we listed on this fundraiser is the amount needed to cover the cost of the funeral for Patrick and allow him to select fitting urns for Lillian and Vivian.  As soon as we reach the total goal of $20,600, the funds will be released and paid directly to the funeral home for Patrick allowing him to be able to focus on what is most important.  Because of the generosity of his family overseas and the friends who attended the visitation and funeral service, $6000 was contributed directly to Patrick during the visitation and funeral service.  Combined with the donations through this site, we have reached the halfway point of the needed funds and we have reduced the goal on the website to more accurately represent that.

The funeral director advised me that he would need Patrick’s permission to provide a copy of the invoice to me.  Patrick agreed thinking that I was asking to give a statement as opposed to receive THE statement.  After he realized what was happening he was speechless.  He even managed a faint smile among the tears and thanks that followed.  Given the gravity of what he is going through, a simple smile was truly amazing to behold.  While I was lucky enough witness it, that smile was not for me.  It was for everyone who has donated, posted or shared this.   

Everyone who has been moved enough to be looking at this site should know that besides his wife Jacki, Patrick’s family is all in Malaysia and was unable to attend the services for his two little girls.  If you are unable to donate even the smallest amount, please consider commenting.  If you can’t find the words to comment, please consider sharing this.  Donations, comments and even the act of sharing this is something that Patrick sees and brings him comfort to him as well as his family.

Please help us keep momentum so we can do this for him.  Thank you for your continued support and please feel free to contact me should you have any questions.

Most Sincerely,

Kevin Clarke

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