I want to give my father a better life in New Zealand by me studying and hopefully migrating with him there. A life away from his problems, a peaceful life and a good Medical care provider and we can find it there.
Please read our story having it written here gives no justice on how our life really is. People think we have a lot but that is not the case. Before graduating and finding a job my father was the only one providing us with education and food for our table and everyday he keeps finding ways on how to feed us and still pay for tuition every year to four children. He has unpaid loans from that time till now.
My father is a very down to earth, simple, jolly, caring and loved person on our area even with all the problems he is facing with bills, work and family problems. He never abandoned us when he had the chance to do so. He never tried looking for another woman because he knows we needed him. He raised us on his own and providing financially to my 2 grandmother; 4 children and 1 grandchild.
I have been helping my father with paying for my sibling’s fees from the day I started having a job. I have been putting my life on hold for them so that I can help him with bills and necessities. He is the only one providing financially and taking care of us since our mother went abroad and basically abandoned us (PS: she is now in the country and lives very near but ignores us). Imagine raising four children on his own. He never complained once on how he is struggling. I as the oldest daughter and is the only one who graduated and has a job and who knows what he has been through and I can see it on his face.
To top it all off our house that was rightfully his by birth is being held by my aunt and wouldn’t give the deed back to my family. The house that my father should have owned is occupied by my estranged mother who pleaded my aunt to let her stay so he is left living in another house which also belongs to that aunt. He was just allowed to stay there because he is taking care of my grandma who is sick and needs to be close to her. But when she dies he will immediately be kicked out of the house and left nowhere to live. And I don't want that time to come. EVER! so I'm preparing everything for my fathers future.
That is where our plan came to be. I am married but is holding off having children of my own and I felt guilty leaving him there to fend on his own. I have to save my father from this family of ours that is putting a huge toll on his health. He is showing signs of health problems. He has started taking medications for his heart and is regularly going to clinics for his monthly check ups and I’m scared that someday it will give in to the amount of pressure my family is giving him. I promise him I'm going to find a better future for him where he can relax and not do anything and just let me take care of him. And I'm asking for your help to make this happen for him. I need to do this the soonest possible time because I'm scared it might be too late if I have to wait a little longer. This is not for me I promise you that at first I really do not want to leave the country because I'm contented living here but for his sake I have to.
I'm here asking help to make this possible and to bring my father in a safe environment for his mental and emotional health. I love him so much and want him to live a peaceful life after he has given so much of himself to us.
I need 1,200,000 PH money total for tuition fee and show money. A little would really help.