Ben and I plan to get married October 19, 2013! We are so excited. Ben and I met 2 years ago when I had given up on love. I was/am a single mother of 2 children, 1 of which has Aspergers, and had decided to give up until my kids were grown. Ben and I decided to hang out as friends one night and grab some coffee and we have been together since. He has become the father my children didn't have but so justly deserved and the love of my life. We decided last year that we may like to start a family and during routine testing found out that I had cancer and more "bio" children were not an option. This year after getting engaged we found out my daughter needed surgery on both her wrists, and both of these unexpected interruptions have brought many bills. I want so badly to have a wonderful wedding to celebrate a new beginning in all of our lives and want to "reward" Ben with a wonderful celebration for being so wonderful and completing our family. Thank you so much and I hope life blesses you.