An umbrella in a never ending storm

We have lost everything all at once, an it couldn't have happened at a more inconvenient time in our lives. We had an emergency move across the country. We had to leave all of our belongings behind including all of my children's things. Although we had my family open up their home to us, now it's falling apart. All in a week the ac went out, water heater went out, and we don't even have the money for gas to drive when we are able to get jobs. Both my sons birthdays are coming up(one in less than a month) and to make things harder....we have a wedding in 3 months that we cant. push off because family has already booked their flights. We need help in this storm