My bf and I, we knew each other for more than 15years(we are 27, wow so we have known each other for more than half of our lives) so we are bascially close friends but we only got together when he is still studying in university 2years back.
We had the best time of our lives, growing up together, have many memories to share together, even friends/classmates.
We weren't close when we are in secondary school, we only got close after we graduated from secondary school, going running together, visit each other in school during our poly days, go hiking together and even across the border overseas but we still didn't end up together, how irony right?
P.s: Singapore Education goes like this
- Nursery + kindergarten
- Primary School
- Secondary School
- Polytechnic/Junior College/ITE
- University(ITE still need to complete Polytechnics)
However boys need to serve National Service of 2years and it is always before going to university.
Turning from best friends to lover, it was quite a big step because it meant getting out of comfort zone and admitting we like each other.
When we go together, we had some friends of ours who wasn't approving our relationship saying best friends can't become lovers etc, giving alot of reason why.
Guess what, we eventually came though and we are finally at the marriage stage(it's like a mutual agreement without proposal), it hasn't been a easy because we are too comfortable with each other that we often take each other for granted. We found out many differences from being best friends to lovers.
So to anyone reading our stories here and loving them, please help us make our simple wedding wish a success