A dream to reality. Please help

My husband and I got married at the court house two years ago and kept it a secret Because I was a little embarrass to tell people I got married at the court house. Even though I always wanted to walk down the aisle. We have one beautiful daughter so we thought it was only right too rush to get married. Since I was five years old I always dreamed of having a big grand ball wedding but as a adult reality hit! My husband and I are both 23 years old and I'm in college and working a full time job to support my family and to keep the bills paid. I don't want $50,000 wedding but I want one that I will always remember. Any little bit helps and will be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much! You don't understand what this day will mean to me.